I wanted to share some thoughts from my good friend Martine Moorby who wrote this blog piece as a guest author this month. Enjoy and please let me know your thoughts....
With only a few of days into 2016, are you just waiting to see what happens?
“I’m waiting to see what happens” or “I’m going with the flow” are comments I often hear people make when faced with having to make a decision. This can be a simple as being invited to choose what film to go and see, as habitual as New Year resolutions, or as potentially complex as a major turning point in life. And even though we are told by various sources that “going with the flow” is good, natural and, dare I say it, “spiritual”, I have also observed that this is mostly a disempowering way of moving forward.
Life and “things” will always happen and rivers flow downstream for sure. I also believe that more often than not we misunderstand or misapply this philosophy in our lives, leaving us at the mercy of “events”. We project the happenings, the circumstances and other people’s decision as being “out there”, the implication being that we have no power to influence them.